Lessons from Multi-Sport Experience Guide Person in Leading New Team
By
Pam Shebest
Special for MHSAA.com
August 1, 2024
PARCHMENT — When Amanda Person was in sixth grade, her family hosted an international student from Japan.
Until then, soccer was the main sport for her family – but that soon changed.
“Naoki wanted to play tennis,” Person said. “He started playing and then my sister (Marissa) started playing, and then I started playing.”
That passion for both sports only increased during her four years at Parchment High School.
“Soccer was really fun, but when I look back on my high school career, tennis was the most prominent thing I remember,” the 2008 grad said. “I think it’s because I played year-round: our regular tennis season and then our summer tennis program and winter tennis program.”
Although it has been 16 years since her glory days at Parchment ended, Person has no trouble recalling the best parts of her Panthers sports career.
In fact, coming up with memories from those days is no problem — she has a folder full of photos called “I Miss Team Sports” on her Facebook page.
Playing intramural soccer at Michigan State University, she graduated with a degree in social work, then stayed in the Big Ten. She is the campus tours and ambassador coordinator at Purdue University in West Lafayette, Ind., where she supervises 80 to 100 student tour guides who provide information for families considering the school.
Her ties to the Spartans sometime makes for interesting conversations with her colleagues.
“They give me a hard time,” she said with a quick laugh. “I say Michigan State will always be my No. 1. That’s my alma mater I spent four years of time, tears and money at Michigan State. But I really love Purdue, so I’ll root for the Boilermakers second.”
She is also working on her master’s degree in higher education at Purdue.
Her office in the welcome center shares space with the alumni association, leading to an unforgettable experience.
During a lunch break, she went home to let out her dog, Tessa. When she returned, a trophy and a bucket were sitting on her desk.
Confused, she asked what they were doing there.
“The tour guides I was working with said (during an event) they had to put them somewhere before putting them out (to the public), so they just put them on my desk,” she said.
Turns out, one trophy was the NCAA Final Four runner-up men’s basketball trophy the Boilermakers took home last year after losing to Connecticut in the championship game.
The other was the Old Oaken Bucket, the trophy that goes to the winner between Purdue and Indiana University’s annual football grudge match.
“I didn’t know anything about the Old Oaken Bucket,” she said. “They were like, what do you mean ‘what is this?’ Then they told me the story behind it.”
Creating core memories
Recalling her years at Parchment, Person becomes animated, smiling and laughing at all the memories.
“The first thing I remember is that my sister was really, really good at soccer,” she said. "I was always trying to keep up with her a bit.”
Her dad, Dave Person, noted that “all of our kids (Adam, Marissa, Amanda) had some success in sports during high school while realizing that it was secondary to their education.
“My only input was that I insisted they treat officials, coaches and opponents with respect, which they did. I always thought that while Marissa did very well in tennis, she was a natural at soccer. Amanda, on the other hand, was very good at soccer, but was a natural at tennis.”
Amanda said her soccer memories come down to “we might not have won a lot, but it was still a lot of fun.”
She said while several on the team, including herself, had years of soccer experience, players also welcomed those who wanted to try the sport for the first time.
“Our team had a home for those people, too,” she said. “The games were always fun, but I feel like a lot of being on a team like that is the outside things you do together: the team dinners, the traveling on the bus, even practices.”
Her freshman year, the team advanced to the MHSAA Lower Peninsula Division 4 Girls Tennis Finals, finishing 19th.
Her senior year was a transition when several sports seasons were switched, putting girls soccer and tennis at the same time during the spring.
Person and the other three two-sport seniors juggled both.
“All of a sudden we were playing soccer and tennis in the spring,” she said. “Thankfully they let us do both, and our coaches were very good in terms (of) making sure nothing important overlapped.”
Person played doubles all four years and was at No. 1 with Kelly Drummond her final two seasons.
“If my memory serves me correctly, I believe we only lost two matches the whole (senior) year, so it was a good year for us,” she said.
It was a very good year.
She and Drummond won their Regional Final, but that ended her prep career since the team did not qualify for championship weekend.
Preparing for life
The best thing about high school tennis, she said, was that it was a combination team and individual sport.
“You can do really well individually and maybe the team doesn’t do well, or maybe the team does well and you don’t do well personally,” she said. “It has the aspect of wanting the entire team to do good.”
Competing in both sports prepared her for the “real” world, she said.
“Playing soccer and tennis and being part of a team helped me cheer other people on,” she said. “The world is a competitive place, so having that foundation of team sports is really good to teach a plethora of things you can use in the real world.
“Even at work, you have your individual job but you’re also part of a team. If one person isn’t doing well, then your whole team isn’t doing well. If someone else is having a hard time, helping them out is helping the team.”
She added that losing also teaches important lessons.
“You’re going to lose at things your entire life,” she said. “Being able to handle losing, handle rejection, is a good skill to have for anything in life. I’ve learned it’s not what happens to you but how you respond to it. That’s a huge lesson. There are a lot of life lessons you can get from playing team sports in high school.”
Her advice to high school athletes today: “Enjoy it, first of all. Don’t take it too seriously in wins and losses.
“When I look back, most of my core memories are being part of a team, having fun with the team, having fun playing the sport. Enjoy your time,” she said.
“Now I miss it.”
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PHOTOS (Top) At left, Parchment’s Amanda Person plays a 2008 tennis match with doubles partner Kelly Drummond; at right, Person and her dog Tessa. (Middle) A pair of beloved trophies sit temporarily on Person’s desk at Purdue. (Below) Person also was a soccer standout at Parchment. (Photos courtesy of Amanda Person.)
Yunke Shares Soccer Across States, Seasons
By
Pam Shebest
Special for MHSAA.com
April 24, 2017
BANGOR — When it is spring, Dennis Yunke can be found coaching girls soccer in Bangor.
But in the fall, he spends three months in Minnesota as the Mankato West High School assistant varsity and head junior varsity coach.
Each position has resulted in unique experiences that he would not trade for anything.
When then-superintendent Ron Parker wanted to start a girls soccer team at Bangor High School, Yunke stepped up.
“It was a situation where I know quite a few people in the soccer culture, and at least four of them turned down the job so it fell to the old guy,” quipped Yunke, who had started club programs from scratch when he lived in Holland.
“I went out and got some good people to help me.”
The first season, Yunke had 25 girls on the team and “maybe one knew how to play soccer,” he said. “I had to go to a charity group in Holland and get totes full of cleats to give out to the girls because they were showing up for tryouts in sandals.
“They had never worn cleats, shin guards. They had played soccer in the backyard with their siblings, but none of them knew anything about soccer.”
That first season, eight years ago, the team won two games – both against junior varsity teams.
Three years ago, Yunke took the job in Mankato to be closer to his grandchildren.
“My two adult sons (Justin and Corey) live in the Twin Cities area in Minnesota and my two grandchildren (Lydia and Lauren) live there,” he said.
“The reason I was looking for something to do there is that when I called my boys and said I wanted to come to stay for a couple weeks or a month, I sensed a lot of panic that neither one of them wanted Dad around for that long.”
The Minnesota girls season runs from Aug. 10 through Nov. 10 which fit perfectly with the Michigan soccer season. So Yunke started looking for a fall job. He discovered a few schools were looking for soccer coaches.
“Two days before their season started, the Mankato Scarlets called me and asked if I was still interested because the person they had selected had to back out,” he recalled.
“They were desperate and had to take the old guy.”
Last season, Class A Mankato ended the year with a 19-3 record, losing in the Minnesota state final.
“Since I arrived in 2014, neither the varsity nor JV has had a losing season,” Yunke said. “They are a talented group of dedicated, committed, hard-working girls.”
Yunke’s junior varsity team was 11-2 in the fall, scoring 89 goals and allowing just eight. In six games, opponents never got off a shot, Yunke said.
"Our JV has continued to thrive under Dennis' leadership,” Mankato varsity coach Chrissy Makela said. “We had a strong JV before he arrived, and he has continued that tradition.
“While that might seem an easy task, Dennis doesn't see these kids the other eight or nine months out of the year as he is in Michigan.”
She said Yunke brings passion and knowledge about the game to the program.
“He is constantly seeking new ideas and learning about the game,” she said. “Then he shares his ideas with the rest of the staff.
“He has some unique team-building exercises with his JV that are different than varsity. This way his team can distinguish themselves as a group, and whatever we do with varsity does not seem redundant to the players.”
Coaching in two states provides several challenges for Yunke, especially since his wife, DeeDee, a medical secretary, stays in Bangor.
Living in a tent
Living arrangements posed a big problem since “they don’t pay enough money to go out and rent an apartment short-term,” he said.
“The first year, I actually camped in a campground in a tent and just loved it. As it got colder, one of the parents came up and said they wanted me to come stay with them.
“I stayed with them next year and last year stayed with the varsity coach. Essentially, I just throw myself out to look for a host family. I kind of hold a sign saying ‘Homeless Coach.’”
He gets back to Bangor at least once during the three fall months and uses email and social media to keep in touch.
“I remind the girls of any soccer events they may be interested in as well as keep an eye on the players who are playing fall and winter sports,” he said.
A Class C school, Bangor has no junior varsity team, so freshmen begin their high school careers on varsity.
Because of that lack of experience, Yunke started a feeder program in the middle school three years ago.
“Tony Keh took over the second year of middle school,” Yunke said. “He has solidified that middle school program. We have five very talented middle school players who will be freshmen next year.”
Mary Spade, Bangor’s athletic director, said Yunke loves soccer – and it shows.
“He brings years of experience, knowledge of the sport, dedication off the charts and loyalty and compassion for coaching,” she said. “He’s very dedicated.”
The Vikings lost five seniors, including leading scorer Maggie Ring (24 goals, 20 assists), from last year’s team that went 7-10.
“We lost the heart of the team,” Yunke said. “Our leading scorer, midfield leader and defensive leader.”
But this year’s team has started 4-1-1. Junior Madi McGuire leads with eight goals, senior Megan Watkins has seven and senior co-captain Janet Ibarra six.
Although “soccer is soccer,” Yunke said there are some big differences between his two teams.
“The difference has a lot to do culturally and socio-economically,” he said. “The girls in Mankato have more opportunities when it comes to clinics and training. They all play club soccer, they all go to camps in the summer.
“Sometimes we have to hold off on our tryouts because they’re in Europe playing soccer. They go for three or four weeks, going on tours and playing against European clubs. There’s just a lot of opportunities there that these (Bangor) girls just don’t have.”
'Soccer is Soccer'
“The level of competition (in Minnesota) is much higher,” he said. “Every game is a dog fight because you’re playing against a pretty level playing field.
“(In Michigan) it’s up and down. The Kalamazoo area schools have more club players. The kids are better funded. We don’t have that (in Bangor). What we do have is a really great fighting spirit. These girls have a lot of heart, and that’s what I like about them.”
Even the way the girls address their coaches is different.
“(In Bangor) they call me Coach,” he said. “In Minnesota they asked me what I wanted to be called. I said Coach because that’s what I’m used to being called.
“They said, Nah, we’re going to call you Dennis. They call the varsity coach Mac.”
The Bangor players also have chocolate milk, courtesy of the United Dairy Industry of Michigan.
“They granted us with $1,100 for the season, and I go out and get the chocolate milk and give the girls a cooler full of chocolate milk every day," Spade said. "It’s very good for recovery. We wouldn’t be able to do it without the grant.”
Senior co-captain Gisella Lorenzo said the guaranteed refreshment also serves as good incentive.
“We have it after every practice and every game,” she said. “I think that’s what pushes us, and we look forward to the end of practice.”
Lorenzo was one of the girls who had never played soccer before trying out for the team as a freshman.
“I didn’t really know anything,” she said. “In the beginning of the season, Coach sets up drills and usually there are captains already set up.
“Coach and captains work together to show us how to pass balls and communicate with each other.”
Ibarra said Yunke uses 10 core values to bond the team.
“We do a lot of team bonding, and that really helps us work together as a team,” she said. “That’s very important. We really use those values throughout the season.”
Yunke said the Bangor community is a soccer community, and “our fans are great. I hope I can coach forever. I’m having a ball.”
Other seniors on the team are Brenda Garcia, Olivia Moore and Taylor Watkins.
Other juniors are Nina Ring and Sam Zordan.
Sophomores are Yasmeen Burton, Marilin Carrillo, Elena Guel and Laisha Ramirez. Freshmen are Maritza Barajas, Jennifer Garcia, Jocelyn Ponce, Jennifer Quinones, Bella Amarissa Serratos and Summer Torres.
Pam Shebest served as a sportswriter at the Kalamazoo Gazette from 1985-2009 after 11 years part-time with the Gazette while teaching French and English at White Pigeon High School. She can be reached at [email protected] with story ideas for Calhoun, Kalamazoo and Van Buren counties.
PHOTOS: (Top) Bangor girls soccer coach Dennis Yunke shares a light moment with, from left, Gisella Lorenzo, Olivia Moore and Janet Ibarra. (Middle top) Yunke, Mankato West girls varsity coach Christina Makela, Bangor athletic director Mary Spade. (Middle below) Yunke walks the field at U.S. Bank Stadium in Minneapolis before Mankato West’s state championship game. (Below) Ibarra pushes the ball upfield during a game. (Bangor and Mankato soccer practice and game photos courtesy of Dennis Yunke.)