Alma Champ Beating Cancer as well
August 22, 2016
By Dick Hoekstra
Reprinted from Gratiot County Herald
MHSAA champion swimmer Evelyn VanDeMark of Alma is back to training normally in the swimming pool after surgery and treatment for a rare form of cancer found in the joints of the arm, neck or leg called synovial sarcoma that was discovered in February.
“It’s really exciting to be able to do what I love to do,” said VanDeMark, now a senior, who won the Lower Peninsula Division 3 Finals 500-yard freestyle and also earned all-state with a seventh-place finish in the 100 butterfly last November.
“This has been a crazy year. It’s been polar opposites. Both great and awful things have happened to me.”
People are amazing
VanDeMark says she has learned a lot.
“The biggest thing I have learned is how amazing people are,” she said. “When you go through something like this, it gives you a good faith that people will be there for you.”
That’s what VanDeMark felt when Alma High School students wrote letters to her in April when she was starting chemotherapy treatments at University of Michigan Hospital in Ann Arbor.
“Not gonna lie, I totally cried when I got all of the letters everyone sent,” she tweeted on April 25. “I can’t describe how thankful I am for the support. Y’all rock.”
“It was really amazing,” she said. “You never know how much people care about you until something like this happens.
“I had other people reaching out to me that I hadn’t talked to in six years. They just wanted to say I really miss you, and I’m really sorry this happened to you. It was really cool to feel that support when I needed it.”
VanDeMark had been one of the softball team’s top players as a sophomore the year before and attended a few softball games last spring, but she missed out on the Panthers’ District and Regional championships and competing in a Quarterfinal game at U-M.
“Obviously I was excited for them, but it was hard to be watching and not playing – especially for such a big year,” she said. “They did so well, and I wish I could have been a part of it. But overall I’m really excited they did so well, and I’m excited to play with them next year because I think we can be a lot better.”
The first round of chemotherapy, VanDeMark said, she “didn’t do very well.”
“But they switched up the anti-nausea medication, and I actually did a lot better after that,” she added. “I was still pretty worn out, and I needed to take naps every once in a while. But I wasn’t as bedridden.”
She was able to attend a May 21 benefit event held to raise money for her treatment.
“That was cool that I was actually able to go for a little while on that Saturday after the treatment ended that Thursday,” she said.
VanDeMark began doing some swimming in the spring.
“I had to miss a week of school every three weeks,” she said. “So I had a lot of homework to catch up on. But whenever I was not doing that, I was in practice.”
Coming back
After each chemotherapy treatment, she had to take a couple of days to recuperate.
“But normally by the following Monday, I was back in the pool even if it wasn’t for full practices,” she said. “I started with one set, and added a set every day. Now I’m swimming two-a-day practices in my normal lane.”
The last chemotherapy session took place June 28-30.
“The plan at first was to do 4-6, but they stopped me at five because everything looked pretty good at that point,” she said. “My doctor said it would be OK to move on to radiation.”
She tweeted July 18 that she was “so excited to wake up and go to swim tomorrow instead of chemo.”
“I tweeted that because that would have been the day I went back for round six of chemo,” said VanDeMark, who then started radiation July 25. “Compared to chemo, it’s a piece of cake.”
She has radiation sessions five times per week for five weeks through the end of August at St. Mary’s of Michigan Medical Center in Saginaw.
Meanwhile, her strength is returning in the pool.
“It has definitely gotten better,” she said. “I’m still a little bit slower than the boys at this point, but I’m catching up. I’m doing the same workouts I would have been doing if nothing had ever happened, and it feels really good.
“It’s exciting to be able to do something you were able to do before. It makes me feel like I overcame something.”
Yet VanDeMark feels she is “kind of out of shape.”
“I feel like I would have felt starting in May normally,” she said. “It is a little bit weird feeling like this in August when the season is about to start. I really think I can get back to where I was, although just swimming at all is going to be pretty awesome because I wasn’t sure at the beginning of all this what I was going to be able to do or how long treatment would last.”
The four-time all-stater wants to continue the success that saw her finish ninth in the 500 free and fifth in the 100 butterfly as a freshman at the LP Division 3 Finals in 2013, sixth in the 500 free and 10th in the 100 butterfly as a sophomore and first in the 500 free and seventh in the 100 butterfly last fall.
“I think I’ll go back to states for sure,” she said. “I don’t know if I will score as high although I certainly hope so. I want to get better, and be better than I was last year. After all, if you’re not working to improve, what are you working for? But I don’t have whole lot of expectations at this point.”
She asked Alma’s swimming coach since 1980, Jeff Huxley, for advice on how to get back to where she was last season.
“He looked at me and said, ‘Well you know, I guess we’re in uncharted territory right now, aren’t we?’” she said. “Our plan is just to do what I think I can do, and he told me to let him know what I think because he has no idea what I feel like at this point, and how could he? But we’ll figure something out.”
Sisterly support
Huxley also coached Evelyn’s 21-year-old sister Lillian.
“She’s kind of the reason I started swimming,” Evelyn said. “I was the little sister who followed her around and did what she was doing. We swam together for a long time. It helps, because she was really good.
“She’s on the record board for multiple events. Sometimes it’s really helpful to look up at the record board, see the ‘L. VanDeMark’ and think I want to be as good as she was. It’s good motivation for sure.”
Lillian and Evelyn’s 25-year-old sister, Grace, has been helpful during her illness this year.
“We’re all really close,” Evelyn said. “Sometimes it’s not even what they do. It’s just having them be there talking to me. They’re both very strong people. I look up to them, and it’s helpful to have strong people around you when you’re going through something like this.”
Evelyn has adjusted to not having hair.
“It was tough at first,” she said. “When it was falling out, I got a little bit emotional. When we went to shave it off, it was scary. But once I did it, I looked healthier without hair than I did with patchy short hair. That didn’t look good, and it was just easier to get rid of it.
“People still stare at me. That doesn’t really bother me. I’m pretty used to it.”
An experience in Saginaw on July 27 was memorable.
“I was at radiation, I walked in the door, and there was this old lady smiling at me,” Evelyn said. “She said, ‘Can I give you a hug?’ I said, ‘Of course you can.’
“Her husband said that she was worried about losing her hair, because she had just finished radiation and was going to chemo. It was kind of cool, because I got to tell her to not worry about it. She looked at me and said, ‘Yeah, you look so cute.’ I said thank you.
“It was just an amazing feeling, because I knew I never would have gotten that hug if I had hair. That to me is worth so much more than having hair.”
Evelyn expects her hair to start growing back soon.
“But since I’m in the pool, it breaks off a little bit,” she said. “So I think it will take longer than they expect it to.”
She’s excited to see if new hair will come in darker or curly, as has been the case with some who have battled cancer.
Meanwhile, she needs no bathing cap and is more aerodynamic as she swims in the water.
“I talked to my coach and said, ‘You know, I might just shave it again because that would be so intimidating at state to see a bald girl walk up,’” Evelyn said. “They would probably think, ‘She shaved her head! She’s serious about this!’”
VanDeMark tweeted, “It’s an amazing feeling when your someday becomes your today” after earning the MHSAA title at Eastern Michigan University’s pool in Ypsilanti last Nov. 21.
She has since found out that she swam that day with the cancer already progressing.
“It had been an ongoing thing,” Huxley said. “We assumed it was just a bruise or some kind of trauma from playing softball. It might have been around for a long time.
“She’s a trooper,” Huxley added. “She’s been anxious to get back in the water. I don’t know how things are going to play out, but I’m happy she’s healthy. She’s doing the absolute best that I think a human can handle under the circumstances. She’s a battler.”
PHOTOS: (Top) Alma's Evelyn VanDeMark swims the butterfly during a training session this month. (Middle) VanDeMark received her first-place medal from her coach Jeff Huxley after winning the 500 freestyle at last season's LP Division 3 Final. (Photos provided by Gratiot County Herald.)
East Grand Rapids' Briggs to Receive Deserved Spotlight for Half-Century of Swim
By
Dean Holzwarth
Special for MHSAA.com
May 17, 2024
EAST GRAND RAPIDS – When the idea was presented to celebrate his coaching milestone, Milton “Butch” Briggs balked at it.
The longtime East Grand Rapids swimming & diving coach doesn’t like to be the center of attention, although his teams certainly have been over the last 50 years as he’s established a pair of perennial state powerhouses.
“He vehemently said, ‘No, we’re not doing this,’” Pioneers assistant girls coach Gwen Barnes said. “But it’s going to be super cool and so deserving. We need to mark this occasion as a community and swimming community. He has influenced so many people and been an active member of the community for a long time.”
On Saturday, the East Grand Rapids Community Foundation and Alumni Association will commemorate Briggs and his 50 years of coaching at the school.
Briggs took over the East Grand Rapids boys swimming & diving program for the 1972-73 season, and the girls program beginning in the fall of 1974. He has coached 102 seasons total, winning 26 MHSAA Finals championships with the girls and 12 with the boys.
Briggs has always wanted the focus to be on his teams rather than himself.
“He is not one who likes the spotlight,” retired Pioneers athletic director Tim Johnston said. “He is a very private man, but it is awesome that this group of alumni, swimmers and parents want to celebrate him.
“He is one of the best coaches I have ever had the opportunity to work with, but to be completely honest, he is a better person and more than just a coach. That is the truth.”
Past EGR swimmer Kris Ward was a member of the first girls state championship team in 1978.
“He had a huge impact on me,” Ward said. “Just from understanding hard work and dedication and being part of a team. Then following it through. He worked with a variety of people on the team and helped us to come together. It was all about life lessons, and he's teaching the kids that while still being successful.”
Briggs also coached Ward’s daughters Alex, Ashley and Abby.
“He was always about connecting with the kids,” Ward said. “My kids were all able to swim for him, and so I had that experience with him in a different way and seeing how he was with all of my girls on the team.
“He starts with connecting with one person and carries that through to make the success better.”
Barnes, an assistant coach for the girls team the past three years, also swam under Briggs from 1984-87.
Her teams won four straight Finals championships and never lost a dual meet.
“There were high expectations for us, and despite them being unspoken, we felt it,” Barnes said. “We wanted and felt this desire to do our best on that team each year, and he instilled this culture of commitment and hard work. Every swimmer had different abilities, but he was able to tap into getting us to do our best.”
Barnes has gained a different perspective of Briggs as his assistant.
While she noted that he still displays the same traits as far as his demeanor, sense of humor, kindness and patience, his devotion to the program and his student-athletes also has never wavered.
“Coaching with him as an assistant, you see how much work and time he puts in that goes unnoticed sometimes,” Barnes said. “To maintain that level of commitment for 50 years is pretty remarkable, and he still has this presence when on the pool deck that challenges everybody to do their best. He set the same standard for everyone, and everyone on the team feels important, which I think is cool.
“He weaves in a lot of stories and lessons from over the years and maintains traditions that I think make current teams feel like they are a part of and building onto the history.”
Briggs, who played football and ran track & field in high school, was inducted into the Grand Rapids Hall of Fame in 2009. The EGR natatorium was named after him in 2014.
Briggs, who taught at Ottawa Hills High School, has received national attention, too. In June 2020, he was named National Girls Swim Coach of the Year by the National Federation of State High School Associations (NFHS) Coaches Association. Briggs had received the same honor in 2011.
He wrote this of his coaching philosophy as part of the nomination for the NFHS girls swimming award:
“My coaching philosophy has been, and continues to be, a work in progress. I have formed relationships with hundreds of amazing young people. They have taught me life lessons in real time and real situations. As a neophyte coach, the experience revolved around winning. We worked together as a team, supported each other in and out of the pool, and won often. Thankfully, I became aware of the value within each athlete. Today, I attempt to interact with each athlete at every team activity and follow their progress in non-swimming endeavors. In short, when I removed my ego from the team's expectations and outcomes, the entire atmosphere was much more enjoyable and productive. And we are still capable of being successful. The Lord has put me in the right place at the right time.”
Ward said she expects about 200 people to attend Saturday’s celebration.
“He has impacted so many people in the swimming community, and there is something special in what he has created,” Ward said. “All of the kids on the current teams and their families will be there, as well as a lot of different generations. I also know that there will be people coming from far away.”
As far as Briggs’ future, Barnes doesn’t see him stepping down any time soon.
“I don’t really ever see him stopping,” she said. “His passion is EGR swim, and I think he will continue to be a part of the program as he can and wants to be.”
Dean Holzwarth has covered primarily high school sports for Grand Rapids-based WOOD-TV for five years after serving at the Grand Rapids Press and MLive for 16 years along with shorter stints at the Ionia Sentinel and WZZM. Contact him at [email protected] with story ideas for Allegan, Kent and Ottawa counties.
PHOTOS (Top) Longtime East Grand Rapids swimming coach Butch Briggs, right, will be celebrated this weekend for his half-century of coaching the Pioneers. (Middle) Briggs, second from far left, celebrates the 2014 Lower Peninsula Division 3 championship with his girls team. (Top photo by Kris Ward; middle photo by High School Sports Scene.)