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Soccer Dream Coming True for Suttons Bay's U'Ren Sisters, Coach Dad
By
Tom Spencer
Special for MHSAA.com
April 21, 2023
Dreams came true for at least one Northern Michigan soccer mom when the spring season got underway.
It was really more of a plan. But it’s quickly becoming more a nightmare for some of Suttons Bay’s opponents.
The dream part belongs to Sarah U’Ren, who gets to watch her daughters, senior Dani and freshman Megan, play on the same high school pitch. The sisters are wreaking havoc on their opponents already.
Both U’Ren girls are already on the scoreboard this young season. Dani, a center back, has one goal. Megan, who plays center mid and striker for the Norse, has five goals despite sitting out a game due to injury.
The plan component may belong pretty much to their coach Randy U’Ren. He took over the girls program just before the 2020 season lost to COVID-19 in anticipation of coaching his daughters. He returned to coaching high school after successful six-year run at the helm of the Suttons Bay boys program. Under U’Ren, the Norsemen played deep into the postseason regularly, reaching MHSAA Semifinals twice.
The Suttons Bay boys team compiled a 102-29-12 record with U’Ren coaching. When he stepped down after the 2011 season ended with a loss in the Regional, U’Ren began dreaming of a potential day his girls played soccer together at Suttons Bay and he was the coach.
“Ever since both girls started playing and enjoying soccer around 5 years old, we thought how fun it would be for them to have one season together on the same team,” the coach recalled. “As my girls kept playing, I stepped down from the boys to coach their youth and travel teams.
“But they were too far apart in age to be on the same team,” he continued. “And when the girls job opens up, I knew it was the perfect time for me to step in.”
U’Ren notes it really wasn’t a plan though.
“It was still a distant vision of coaching them both at the same time, and now that is here, I am so happy it all worked out,” he continued. “I feel so fortunate that one of the things they love and are excelling at is the same thing I have loved as a player, fan and coach.”
The sisters are thrilled to have their father as a coach and pleased to be playing together. Over the years, they say, their dad has brought out the best in them.
“I have had my dad as a coach for many years, and I think he has pushed me at home and at practice to be the best athlete I can be and to go above and beyond what most players do,” said Dani. “He has always been my favorite coach, and I had been waiting to play with my sister on the same team.
“Having my dad coach these past few years was very fun for me, but I am so excited to be able to have my last year with my sister playing too,” Dani continued. “The best part is having my sister to hang out with and play against; she always pushes me to be better.”
This season was in sight for quite some time for Megan, the high-scoring freshman. She’s planning to make the best of the only year she’ll have this situation.
“We have been thinking about this one season for a very long time, and I love playing on the same team with my sister because I can look up to her as a leader on the team and in my life,” Megan said. “The best part for me is that it’s super fun listening, and learning, to all of the strategy at home, practices, and games.”
Dani agreed.
“We have the same ideas about the game, we can bounce ideas off of each other and if he is explaining something new I usually get it right away,” she said.
Coach U’Ren’s belief the team will benefit from having sisters playing together stems from what he saw in his playing and previous coaching experience. Brothers and sisters tend to have each others’ backs, including back when his younger brother Ryan played with him at Alma.
This year’s Norse teams have another pair of sisters, Sophia and Clarice Bardenhagen.
“The sibling bond has always been strong,” the veteran coach pointed out. “A lot of times they just know what the other will do before anyone else — I've seen that same thing with every set of siblings I've coached.”
U’Ren admitted he tends to be harder on his own girls and reminds himself regularly to switch back to “Dad” mode from time to time.
“Coaching your own girls is a fun challenge,” he said. “I try to treat them like I do all the other girls.
“I often have to remind myself to coach them as if they weren't my girls,” he continued. “The other thing is to really try to switch back to ‘Dad’ mode after practices and games.”
U’Ren has hopes of returning Suttons Bay to prominence in league and postseason play. The Norse have won few postseason games since the coaching days of Ryan Defoe and Leland starting its own girls program. Leland had been in a co-op with Suttons Bay.
Today, Suttons Bay has a co-op with Northport and Leelanau St. Mary’s that has been in place since 2015.
The Norseman are preparing to take on Buckley this evening and have high hopes of evening their record at 3-3-1.
“As with any season, we want to improve each week,” Coach U’Ren said. “If we do that, the results start to speak for themselves.”
The U’Ren sisters believes the team enjoys playing with them and for their dad.
“The team loves it,” said Dani. “They always tease us and sometimes get our names mixed, but they love it.”
Megan summed it up.
“The team thinks it’s really cool,” she said.
Coach U’Ren, though, is trying to keep a perspective that goes beyond soccer and winning.
“I will always cherish just being able to spend more time with Dani and Megan,” he said. “Kids are so busy, and time just flies.
“Having these couple extra hours together each day is priceless.”
Tom Spencer is a longtime MHSAA-registered basketball and soccer official, and former softball and baseball official, and he also has coached in the northern Lower Peninsula area. He previously has written for the Saginaw News, Bay County Sports Page and Midland Daily News. He can be reached at [email protected] with story ideas for Manistee, Wexford, Missaukee, Roscommon, Ogemaw, Iosco, Alcona, Oscoda, Crawford, Kalkaska, Grand Traverse, Benzie, Leelanau, Antrim, Otsego, Montmorency, Alpena, Presque Isle, Cheboygan, Charlevoix and Emmet counties.
PHOTOS (Top) Dani (15) and Megan (10) U’Ren have grown up in Suttons Bay soccer and now play for their father, coach Randy U’Ren. (Middle) Dani and Megan U’Ren defend against Kingsley and Moira Martz (8). (Below) Randy U’Ren organizes his team during a game this spring. (Photos by Ron Kramer; except family photo courtesy of the U’Ren family.)
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Leland Star Reaches Goals, Scores Record
May 12, 2016
By Dennis Chase
Special for Second Half
LELAND – Joe Burda pauses when asked if there’s one moment that sums up his senior standout, Libby Munoz.
“Well,” the Leland soccer coach said after a few seconds, “there’s been 205 moments so far.”
The 205 represents the number of goals Munoz has scored during her four-year varsity career. It’s an MHSAA record – for girls and boys. She passed Fenton’s Jordan Newman (195) and Burt Lake Northern Michigan Christian’s Aaron Chatfield (201) last week.
“It’s a fun benchmark to get to,” the 18-year-old said. “It’s been on the radar since my sophomore year.”
Munoz, who is averaging three goals a game this season, now has her sights set on the state points record. Hudsonville Unity Christian’s Laura Heyboer owns the girls mark (290), Chatfield the boys (296). Munoz needs just over 20 points to catch Heyboer.
“That (points total) means a lot because it shows that not only can I score, but that I can set people up,” Munoz said. “It proves I have more dimensions (to my game).”
Leland still has seven dates on the schedule, including one invitational, before the start of the MHSAA Tournament.
Munoz is also on target to challenge her 64-goal season in 2014. The state record is 66, held by Kristi Vandeberghe of Mount Clemens. Munoz currently has 41.
“She has that part (of the game) you can’t teach,” her father, Jim, said. “She has that ability to find the back of the net.”
Munoz, who is often marked by opposing teams, makes it look easy at times with her quick decision-making, skill at possessing the ball and uncanny shot placement.
“She has some natural ability,” her mother, Megan, said, “but that’s (success) a result of all the time she’s put into it.
“I think that’s what she’s most proud of. She’s put in the work. I think that’s what she wants her legacy to be. If you work hard at something you can do anything.”
For the 5-foot-2 Munoz, who also scored 1,738 points in her four-year varsity basketball career, soccer is a year-round sport. She plays club soccer in the fall and often trains with members of the Leland boys team in the winter and summer. Her summers also are packed with camps.
Then there’s weight and fitness training.
“I don’t think she’s any taller than she was as a freshman. I don’t think she’s any faster,” Burda said. “But what she’s really worked on is her strength – to hold on to the ball and not get knocked off, and then to beat the keeper with a strong, fast shot.”
Training with the boys – Leland has one of the top Division 4 programs in the state – has aided her development, too.
“Where it’s helped the most is with my quickness on the ball,” she said. “I have to know before it’s even coming to me where I’m going to go or otherwise they’re right there. They’re so much faster and stronger that I’ve really had to learn to be quick. That’s a piece of advice Kalamazoo College soccer coach Bryan Goyings gave me a couple years ago – get together with some guys and play some short-sided games because it’s really going to improve your quickness and ball control. It’s helped a ton.”
Munoz will be playing for Goyings in the fall. She’ll play college basketball, too. She reached that conclusion halfway through this past season.
“I realized I didn’t want to be done with it,” Munoz said. “I sent film to the basketball coach (Katie Miller) and she came up and watched.”
Just like that, she was a two-sport athlete again.
For all the impressive numbers Munoz has posted in soccer and basketball, the one that resonates most with her father is the 4.0 grade-point average she’s achieved in the classroom. She scored a 31 on her ACT. She also was one of 32 recipients statewide this winter of the MHSAA/Farm Bureau Scholar-Athlete Award.
“I think that shows the kind of person she is,” Jim Munoz said. “Sports are great, but it’s not like you’re going to make a living playing sports, at least 99 percent aren’t.”
Munoz will be a pre-med major at Kalamazoo.
“I’ve wanted to be a doctor since I was 4,” she said. “I’m really interested in the sciences. They’ve always been my favorite classes to take.”
If there’s one thing people should know about Libby Munoz, it’s that when she sets a goal she usually accomplishes it.
A 4.0? Check
A state scoring record? Check.
Team success? Check.
The Comets are 70-16-2 in Munoz’s four years. Leland, which started offering girls soccer five years ago, reached the Regional Finals a year ago before losing to powerhouse Grandville Calvin Christian, which has won four MHSAA titles in a row.
Leland graduated 10 seniors off that team, plus lost underclassman Delaney Drake, who transferred out of the district. The daughter of former Detroit Red Wings forward Dallas Drake and Leland basketball star Amy (Boynton) Drake, Delaney has committed to play hockey at the University of Wisconsin.
Still, Leland is currently 10-3, and that’s with six freshmen in the playing group, including Munoz’s cousin Allie Martin, a starter on the Comets’ Class D championship volleyball team. Leland’s girls soccer team is steadily improving. The Comets handed Glen Lake its first loss last week, 4-3. That avenged a 4-1 setback earlier in the season.
Burda said Munoz has taken the underclassmen “under her wing.” And it’s a role the senior embraces.
“I love it,” she said. “They’re all so interested to learn. It’s fun to be their leader and help them out. I was there once, too. My freshman year I had a senior cousin on the team, Maggie Osorio, and she was my best friend. She set an example for me. I want to be to my teammates what she was to me. I love them a lot.”
Watching those leadership traits develop has been one of the highlights of the season for her mother.
“I’m proud of her setting the record, but what I’m really proud of is that she has stepped up and led a young group of people,” Megan Munoz said. “That’s going to take her farther in her life than anything.”
Libby Munoz leads by example. The state record did not come by accident.
“For (my teammates) to see that and see what you can accomplish with hard work is really big,” she said.
That dedication to learn and achieve is what drives Munoz.
“If I’m in something, I’m all in,” she said. “It doesn’t matter what it is. If I make a commitment, set a goal, I’m 100 percent in.
“My parents worked it into me that I should be the hardest worker, and I think that’s something I live by.”
She applies it in athletics and the classroom.
“That’s something that’s in me,” she said. “I’m interested in learning and I really like to know as much as I can about things. It doesn’t matter what it is. I like to know the why and the how. I’m always asking questions of whoever is around me so that I can learn more and be the best I possibly can be.”
In soccer, she has come up through the ranks as a defender, center-midfielder and forward. She understands the positions and that benefits how she plays.
“I feel like I’m very aware of what’s happening – just from the amount of time I’ve spent on the field,” she said. “I know where the defenders are going to be and where they want to be and I also know where my teammates should be. I can help and guide them to where the shape is going to be the best.
“And even though I’m on the top line I can help out our defense because I can see where the opposing team is going to attack. That comes from experience. I pay close attention. I’m always breaking things down.”
She tried not to pay too close of attention, though, as she approached the state scoring record, although she admits it was hard when people were frequently asking her about it.
Her parents never brought it up.
“That’s not something we talked about because there was no reason to put that added pressure on her,” Jim Munoz said.
Megan Munoz said they didn’t talk about hitting 1,000 career points in basketball either.
“She had no idea (until it happened),” Megan said.
Ironically, Jim and Megan were also 1,000-point scorers at Leland. Jim scored 1,414 points, Megan (Grosvenor) 1,194. Megan coached Libby for two seasons on varsity.
Libby’s soccer exploits, particularly in the last few week, have been well documented in the local media. Burda called it a “special situation” because Munoz’s younger teammates have been part of the experience, too.
“It’s been quite a ride for them,” he said.
And that’s important, Jim Munoz added, because Libby’s teammates, past and present, are a part of the record.
“Soccer’s not golf,” he said. “She didn’t do this by herself. They’ve had some fantastic teams and she’s had a lot of support along the way. Just because you’re the one putting it into the net doesn’t mean that it’s all you.”
Since setting the record, Megan said Libby seems to be playing more freely.
“She’s just enjoying it,” she said. “Everybody tells you not to think about it. But you still have this monkey on your back.”
And with her younger teammates improving, Munoz is excited about what’s ahead in the coming weeks.
“The win over Glen Lake last week was huge,” she said. “I think it makes them realize how far we can go with hard work and dedication.”
And beyond that, a new chapter in her life will begin at Kalamazoo College, although Megan is quick to tell Libby to enjoy the here and now.
“Everything’s bittersweet right now,” Megan said. “The nice thing is (Kalamazoo) is three and half hours away. We’ll still be able to catch some games.”
For now, the next important game is Friday when Leland, after a week off, travels to Charlevoix.
Dennis Chase worked 32 years as a sportswriter at the Traverse City Record-Eagle, including as sports editor from 2000-14. He can be reached at [email protected] with story ideas for Manistee, Wexford, Missaukee, Roscommon, Ogemaw, Iosco, Alcona, Oscoda, Crawford, Kalkaska, Grand Traverse, Benzie, Leelanau, Antrim, Otsego, Montmorency, Alpena, Presque Isle, Cheboygan, Charlevoix and Emmet counties.
PHOTOS: (Top) Leland's Libby Munoz (14) splits a pair of Kingsley defenders and punches in the record-setting 196th goal of her career May 2. (Middle) Munoz celebrates with a teammate. (Photos by Jason Bushen/Leelanau Enterprise.)