A Fantastic First-Time Finish

October 15, 2012

By Geoff Kimmerly
Second Half editor

Give Mariah Fuqua credit for trying something many others would not.

Throwers – who toss the shot and discus during the spring track and field season – are not the ones who usually cross over into cross country during the fall.

It’s not that it can’t happen. It just doesn’t. Mention to most the idea of running 3.1 miles for fun, on top of a few hundred miles during training, and the response will probably be a laugh – if not a strange look.

“I was going to do it freshman year, and I talked my mom out of it so I could do basketball conditioning instead,” Fuqua said. “I thought (cross country) would be the hardest thing I’d ever have to do in my life.”

But Fuqua, a junior at Dearborn Divine Child, had a plan when she came out as a sophomore. She thought of it as another way to get in shape for hoops – and was so pleased with her improvement in fitness that she came out for cross country again this fall, although she is no longer playing basketball and never made it more than a mile and a half last season without stopping to walk.

Fuqua has continued to make strides this season, but heading into the Sept. 22 Detroit Catholic Central Invitational hadn’t strode over the finish line.

“The toughest part is convincing yourself,” Fuqua said. “It takes a lot to bring yourself to even think you’ll be running 3.1 miles, running non-stop.”

The DCC course at hilly Cass Benton Park is one of the toughest in the state, so that wasn’t going to be the day. She figured she’d run through a mile and a half and be done.

But as she neared one of those hills, she saw a runner from Ann Arbor Huron cheering her on from the top.

'You can do it!'

Alexandria Cell has been a distance runner since she was 9. The Ann Arbor Huron junior was an individual qualifier at last season’s MHSAA Cross Country Finals at Michigan International Speedway, and she finished a solid 67th of 238 runners with a time of 19 minutes, 21 seconds.

If running comes naturally to her, so does being a good teammate. And that’s why it made perfect sense that Cell – who finished runner-up in the long-finished varsity race – was still on the course cheering on her junior varsity teammates during the open run that finished off the meet.

Cell considers herself “definitely a hyper person.” But that’s not why Fuqua recognized her coming down the hill near the halfway point.

Instead, it was the color of Cell’s hooded sweatshirt after seeing her also cheering everyone on at the starting line.

Now, Cell was yelling directly to Fuqua, “Good job! You can do it! Keep going!”

Building toward a fantastic finish

Divine Child girls cross country coach Tony Mifsud and his staff emphasize running as a lifestyle. All are welcome. He and his assistants talk to new runners one-on-one to find out their goals for being part of the team – be they competition, fitness or social-focused.

Fuqua’s goal last season was to run one mile at a time. “We started with five minutes, 10 minutes … and she had a great attitude,” Mifsud said. “But this year, we had a different mindset: to finish. Our goal with her, number one, was to forget about time. Fifteen minutes or 55, whatever (to finish), we’ll get you there.”

Assistant coach Jack Benitez set up a plan specific to Fuqua, who embraced it. She continued to improve. On the tough DCC course, Fuqua was looking good to make it two miles on the fly.

“I’m so happy she made it to a mile and a half, and it’s a loop course, so you do it twice,” Mifsud said. “I’m saying, ‘Mariah, Mariah, run like the wind. Sing like the wind. Sing a song if you’re tired, in your mind. Say a poem, something that will change the focus on pain (to) on the finish line.’

“I can see it developing in my mind that this is going to be great, and of all places at probably one of the toughest courses in the state to run,” Mifsud added. “And lo and behold, we see this young lady out of nowhere running with her. And I’m thinking, this is even better.”

That's just Allie

As Fuqua approached that hill at the 1½-mile mark, Cell ran down it and toward her.

At first, Cell ran around Fuqua a few times, willing her forward. Then she started running with her, and soon Fuqua mentioned she’d never finished a race.

Fuqua told Cell she wanted to stop at two miles. Cell convinced her she could keep going. So they did. They didn’t see a two-mile mark, but ran past two of Fuqua’s coaches, who told her she’d already run past it and might as well keep going.

That, in itself, was something Fuqua never thought she could do. Together, she and Cell moved through the final mile.

“When our team saw it, we thought, ‘That’s just Allie.’ With Allie, it doesn’t matter if you’re the slowest person or just started (running), she wants to cheer you on,” Huron coach Tim Williams said. “Her thought is everybody should be cheered on, no matter what.”

The boys open race had begun, and some of those runners had caught up with Fuqua and Cell. They too cheered on the pair as they passed them by.

“I told her thank you, and that I was going to give her a hug. Because when we were running up to the finish line, it was really emotional,” Fuqua said. “She said, ‘I’d really like a hug, but we can do it after.’”

“Here she comes up the hill at the finish line. And I don’t know what made people stay that late, but hundreds of them are at the finish line,” Mifsud said. “Maybe they sensed something. There was all this vibe, all this noise. And then it was Allie and Mariah, and it was just beautiful. They hugged each other and started crying, and we were crying. It was amazing.”

Be the example

Give Alexandria Cell credit. She thinks what she did was nothing to fuss over. Anyone else would’ve done the same, given that opportunity.

She’s used to running lots of miles. She was already on the course. She needed a cool-down anyway.

“It was easy on my part. It was just fun to be able to support her,” Cell said. “Oh my gosh, she was amazing! I’m glad she got the support from her team and friends. It’s enough to drive people to do things they’ve never done before.”

And give Mariah Fuqua credit for finishing something many wouldn’t start.

Before, she convinced herself to keep running because when she was done, she wouldn’t have to run again for a few days.

Now, she tells herself to keep going so she can see how much she’s improved.

Her time that day in Northville was 49:37. She’s finished four more races since that afternoon.

And she’s going to run cross country again next season. She’s always loved the practices. The team is like another family. And now, the meets are more fun too.

“It’s really weird. I never thought I’d be in this situation to where I’d have to talk about it when people ask me or congratulate me, or people cheer for me when I’m running because they’ve heard about this race,” Fuqua said. “I didn’t think too much about it at the time. I had just finished the race and I was proud of myself for that. I didn’t think I’d be such a big inspiration at the time.

“Then my parents and coaches told me I’m doing something a lot of people can’t do, and I actually finished it. So that shows a lot of people, who will look up to you for this, it proves that throwers or someone with the same build can do this sport.”

PHOTOS: (Top) Ann Arbor Huron junior Alexandria Cell and Divine Child junior Mariah Fuqua turn toward the finish at the Detroit Catholic Central Invitational. (Middle) Fuqua and Cell celebrate Fuqua's first completed race. (Photos courtesy of Dearborn Divine Child.)

Milford Racing to Spell Victory Again

By Tom Markowski
Special for Second Half

August 30, 2017

HIGHLAND TOWNSHIP – Cross Country at Milford is not so much a sport as it is a way of life.

That might sound a tad overstated. But you would have a difficult time convincing Nicole Gringling.

Gringling is a senior at Milford High. She’s competed at the Lower Peninsula Division 1 Finals her first three seasons and played a big role on the school’s first MHSAA championship team in girls cross country last season.

The boys program has won five titles, all under Brian Salyers, the head coach for both teams.

An adopted child, Gringling latched onto the sport – and the people who are a part of the cross country community in this western Oakland County town – when she was in middle school. Gringling started swimming at age 4 and gave up the sports competitively seven years later for this opportunity to race outdoors instead.

“I fell in love with cross country,” she said. “Running is more fun (than swimming). I kind of have a rough background. I just have so much fun running with my friends. It’s where I belong.

“I’m definitely looking forward to running in college. It’s part of my personality.”

Milford returns five of its six top runners from a year ago, Gringling being one, and is again one the state’s top teams.

But that doesn’t seem to be important or at the top of the list of priorities for the team or Salyers. It instead gets back to what Gringling said: running cross country is fun. That’s what’s important. And if you win, well, that's makes it more fun.

To understand what cross country means to those in this community one must go back 50 years or more to when the legendary Lee Averill coached Milford’s cross country teams, boys and girls. Averill, a Milford graduate who died in 2014 at age 76, would go on to coach at West Bloomfield and lead his 1989 girls team to an LP Class A title.

Gene Balawajder took over the cross country program in 1970, and though he never coached an MHSAA champion, he came close and along the way was paramount in the continuation of a proud program Averill established. Balawajder’s girls team placed second to Dearborn Edsel Ford at the Class A Final in 1984.

Milford’s girls would win a number of county titles, including in 1988, a year when the boys finished third in at the LP Class A Final.   

Salyers was a member of that boys team. That was his senior year, and although Salyers wasn’t one of the top runners (and a better basketball player at the time), he grew to love the sport. In 1996, after graduating from Western Michigan University, Salyers took over the program and Balawajder became the athletic director. To help with the transition, Glen Edwards, Balawajder’s longtime assistant, served as Salyers’ assistant the first two years.

Salyers knew then that he was taking over a special program, one he needed to embrace and enhance.

“The tradition is rich here,” he said. “It’s something we take pride in.

“In terms of having a cross country culture, it runs all through the school. When you put those letters on, M-I-L-F-O-R-D, you play for your school, your parents.”

The letters, those on the jerseys, has become part of Salyers’ imprint on the program – a touch that adds a little more pride. Seven runners represent each school at Michigan International Speedway, and each Milford runner who earns his or her place among those seven wears one of the letters, whether it be the block “M” or the “I” and so on.

Gringling wore the D her freshman year, the L her sophomore season and the letter I last fall.

Junior Victoria Heiligenthal, Milford’s top runner who placed 14th at MIS in 2016 and is the current county champion, is all in with the team aspect of the sport. Like Gringling, Heiligenthal competes in track & field too, her best events being the 800-meter run and the 1,600.

“Wearing the letters is one of my favorite things,” she said. “It’s really a lot of fun. All of the tradition the program has. Even the new conference (Lakes Valley) we’re in is something we look forward to.”

During the offseason, Salyers organizes events and camps to keep the athletes involved and fresh. He holds a team camp near Rapid River in the central Upper Peninsula where his runners train, but also get away from running and (with cell phones hopefully put away) have fun playing Frisbee or football – anything to create camaraderie and stronger friendships. There’s also a group camp, a much larger gathering where the underclassmen and the incoming freshmen mingle with the varsity squad.

“We have a saying,” Gringling said. “And that’s we care about each other more than the other team cares about their teammates.”

Salyers creates an upbeat atmosphere where winning isn’t the goal, but by having fun and working hard you, as an individual, will win even if it’s just by cutting a half second off of your best time.

“There’s a hometown feeling here,” he said. “It’s a fading element in high school sports. The transfers and all that is conflicting with that.

“I don’t know what high school sports will be like in 10 or 15 years. There have been a lot of changes. We try to keep an old-school atmosphere.”

And Salyers is not one to forget the past. When Milford won its first cross country title with the boys team in 2003, he had Balawajder come up to the podium with the team to celebrate in hoisting the trophy.

“That might be my proudest moment,” Salyers said.

There have been many.

Tom Markowski is a columnist and directs website coverage for the State Champs! Sports Network. He previously covered primarily high school sports for the The Detroit News from 1984-2014, focusing on the Detroit area and contributing to statewide coverage of football and basketball. Contact him at [email protected] with story ideas for Oakland, Macomb and Wayne counties.

PHOTOS: (Top) Nicole Grindling (far right) rounds a curve during last season’s LPD1 Final at Michigan International Speedway. (Middle) Milford’s seven runners spell out their school name on the track after winning their first title. (Below) Victoria Heiligenthal works to stay ahead of another competitor during a race last season. (Photos courtesy of Brian Salyers.)