Oxford Golfers Excel, Continue to Heal with 1st League Title, Finals Debut
By
Ray Hill
Michigan Interscholastic Golf Coaches Association
October 18, 2023
It was 49 degrees, cloudy, and drizzly Monday when five Oxford High School girls golf team members pulled into the parking lot at Metamora Golf and Country Club. They popped open the backs of their cars and rooted around for the right combination of hats, hoodies, gloves and rain gear. There were no complaints about the weather as the fivesome strolled down the first fairway of an empty course giggling and sharing stories from the day at school.
They were in their happy place.
Oxford coach Gretchen Gabler, 56, has worked for nine years to create a happy, safe place for her golfers. Bad weather, bad bounces, bad scores are not going to break their spirit – they’ve seen more than most their age, and have developed a mentality to deal with adversity and stay focused on the important things in life, says their coach.
And, aside from a few sprinkles, cold fingers, and searching for that missing floppy rain hat in the bottom of the golf bag, overcoming adversity has not been an issue this fall for the Wildcats. Gabler’s team is enjoying the most successful season in the program’s 28-year history. Oxford won the Oakland Activities Association White championship, and qualified for the Lower Peninsula Division 1 Finals – both first-time happenings for the program. The Wildcats, No. 8 in the current Michigan Interscholastic Golf Coaches Association Division 1 state rankings, will tee it up Friday and Saturday at Forest Akers West.
“It’s so nice to see (success) for those girls and Gretchen,” said Clarkston coach Lezlie Hallman, who has had a front-row seat watching the rise of Oxford girls golf. “My hat is off to them. They’ve earned everything this year. Gretchen goes above and beyond with those girls, and has worked hard to strengthen our league. Everyone loves her, and her girls. They cheer hard for everyone else on the golf course, and now my girls couldn’t be happier for them; I’m happy for the school – the whole community needs this kind of school success.”
This team’s success is a feel-good story for many after the November 2021 shooting that killed four and injured seven at Oxford High School.
“The shooting is not who we are, but something that happened to us,” Gabler said. “After the shooting, I told the parents ‘I don’t care if we ever win a game – I just want these girls to heal.’ So when I see them smile and giggle and laugh, it’s an amazing sign that they have carried forward.”’
They’ve smiled, giggled, and laughed this season, but they’ve also won.
This fall Oxford won five 18-hole events with five more top-five finishes. They have set school 9- and 18-hole scoring records (307 and 163). They’ve gone from league doormats to league champions over the last three years.
“We are definitely a close-knit team that has really come together since the shooting,” said senior Ellie Gieselman. “Since (the shooting) we’ve tried to play more for our school than for ourselves.”
Last year, Gieselman said, her team appreciated the support, but grew weary of the sympathetic looks when they showed up at events. And then they started carding low numbers.
“That’s happening a lot less now that we’re not at the bottom – people see us now more for how much game we have,” Gieselman said with a proud smile.
It’s been a long climb to the top for the Wildcats. Gabler was a stay-at-home married mom of two adult children when she took the program reins in 2014. She took up the game herself in her 30s and was an Oxford golf mom when her daughter played.
Knowing she wasn’t going to shape swings like a teaching professional, she focused on what she could do.
“In my first few years, I was teaching kids how to hold a club and swing and read greens,” she said. “I knew we weren’t in the same place as other schools in the league, but I knew we could be the team that knows the rules, counts all our strokes, plays with sportsmanship, and has fun.”
Those foundational principles, combined with Gabler’s enthusiasm, changed everything for the program. She soaked up every detail from the MHSAA Coaches Advancement Program classes for new coaches, asked veteran coaches for advice, begged friends and neighbors to encourage their daughters to play golf, and used social media to promote her girls golf program among Oxford-area moms. She guarantees a positive experience for all and refuses to make cuts. Gabler has team bonding events at her home, is visible at all school events, and can tell you each of her team member’s colleges of choice and future dream jobs.
She has an active team page on Facebook and an Instagram account where team members interview each other, competitors, and generally just have fun. The team has grown in size from 8 in 2014 to 30 in 2023.
Oxford golf parent Cari Yankee has five daughters, three of whom have played golf, including senior Lexie. Her twin eighth graders plan to join the squad next year.
“Gretch really loves these girls,” Yankee said. “She is fostering a love of golf, and she makes it a heck of a lot of fun. She never lets them get down on themselves and is so patient with them. She is a wonderful mentor, and as a parent, I never have to worry about the kids because I know how much she really cares for them and loves them. Ask anyone who has played for her, and you won’t find anyone who has a bad word about Gretch. She’s special.”
Gabler considered stepping down as coach a couple of years ago. The COVID-19 pandemic and the death of a former team member deeply impacted her. It was the hugs and support from the girls that brought her back for the 2021 season.
“I just couldn't walk away from those girls. And I’m really glad I didn’t quit because I wouldn’t have been there for them during the shooting, and for this fun season,” Gabler said.
During the 2021 shooting, she texted every member of her team, asking if they were physically safe. They were. In the days after, she arranged a Zoom meeting for the girls with a trauma counselor who worked with survivors of the 2018 Parkland, Fla., school shooting. Their emotional recovery became her primary focus, as she worked to provide them a safe zone where they could talk about the tragedy, or just play golf and have fun.
The team grew closer, Gabler saw healing taking place, and she began to notice something special about these girls.
“This group is different,” Gabler said. “They’re not just great athletes, they are great young women; they are kind, they are Godly – they’re just really good people. Being associated with them has been a great honor.”
The core group playing at the Finals consists of seniors Ellie Gieselman, Ella Flores, Keira Billis, Gabi Wait, and sophomore Katie Pill.
“We knew this season would be special,” Billis said. “We had a good team last year, and everyone worked hard over the summer to get better. We came out and won the first tournament of this season, and knew it was a great sign. And now, we’re off to states.”
Gabler is excited for the girls, and hopes they play well, but won’t be focused on the scoreboard. She simply wants the girls to revel in the moment, perform as well as they can, and just be kids.
Watching them walk side-by-side down the fairway on a cold, drizzly afternoon, Gabler said “Those girls care very much for each other, and for life. They have an understanding about life that many people cannot grasp because they have not faced their own mortality like these girls did at age 16. They are mature beyond their years, and yet they are still kids just having fun.”
Having fun in a safe, happy place, and developing the skills to help succeed in life – it’s what high school athletics is all about.
Ray Hill is a recently retired teacher from East Jackson High School who has done freelance writing for 40 years. He has also coached golf at East Jackson for 27 years and serves as public relations director for the Michigan Interscholastic Golf Coaches Association.
PHOTO From left: Oxford golfers Gabi Wait, Ellie Gieselman, Ella Flores, Keira Billis and Katie Pill. (Photo provided by the Michigan Interscholastic Golf Coaches Association.)
Preview: Champs Return as Favorites
October 17, 2019
By Geoff Kimmerly
Second Half editor
The champs are here. But will they reign again?
All four MHSAA Lower Peninsula Girls Golf Finals this weekend will welcome back last season’s champions – and all four of those teams also happen to be ranked No. 1 in their respective divisions by the Michigan Interscholastic Golf Coaches Association.
Below is a glance at the expected contenders in all four divisions, plus individuals who appear strong candidates to figure into the final standings. Play begins at 10 a.m. both Friday and Saturday, and come back Saturday evening for coverage of all four championship tournaments on Second Half. Click for a list of all Finals qualifiers and Regional scores from last week.
Lower Peninsula Division 1 at Michigan State’s Forest Akers West
Top-ranked: 1. Northville, 2. Grosse Pointe South, 3. Plymouth.
This decade has seen seven schools win Division 1 at least once. Northville has followed up last year’s start-to-finish dominance with another memorable run as it looks to repeat as champion. Plymouth is back in the mix as well after finishing runner-up in 2018, its best at the Finals since claiming Division 1 titles back-to-back in 2012 and 2013. Grosse Pointe South is seeking its highest finish since winning the championship in 2011.
Northville: The Mustangs cleared the Finals field by 31 strokes last season and have been ranked No. 1 for the entirety of this one. Three of last season’s top five will be back this weekend – senior Sufna Gill was fifth at last year’s Final, but fourth among her teammates at this year’s Regional as all five finished among the top eight at Links of Novi. Senior Sedona Shipka, another returnee, led the 23-stroke Regional win finishing third overall, and freshman Samantha Coleman tied for fourth. Junior Katelyn Tokarz also returns and took sixth, and sophomore Megha Vallabhaneni tied for eighth as the team shot a Division 1-best 313.
Grosse Pointe South: The Blue Devils are expected to make a big jump after tying for eighth last season, with four players back from that lineup. South shot a 335 to win its Regional at Fox Creek in Livonia, with all five golfers finishing among the top 10 individuals. Junior Audrey Becker led as medalist, with senior Kaitlin Ifkovits second, sophomore Sabel Imesch fourth, senior Mia Rancilio fifth and junior Alston Smith tied for 10th. Ifkovits will be playing in her fourth Finals.
Plymouth: The Wildcats were second to Northville at Links of Novi, shooting a 336 that tied for third-lowest at a Division 1 Regional. Sophomore Bridget Boczar finished eighth at last season’s Final and took second at last week’s Regional, two strokes behind twin Grace Boczar. Senior Grace Iacopelli also is back from last season’s lineup.
More individuals of note: After Traverse City West grad Anika Dy won the last three Division 1 individual championships, this year’s race should be more wide open – and with a number of contenders capable of rising to the top. Utica Eisenhower junior Ariel Chang tied for sixth as a freshman and finished third last season. Rochester senior Savannah Haque was second as a sophomore and ninth last year. Dy’s younger sister Anci Dy, now a junior, tied with Gill for fifth a year ago and tied for sixth in 2017. Then add in Okemos sophomore Allison Cui, who tied for first in Division 2 last fall and ended up runner-up after a playoff. Dy, Chang and Cui also were Regional champs last week, and Troy junior Jennifer Liu and Rochester Adams freshman Grace Wang tied for their Regional’s medalist honor. Haque, Ann Arbor Pioneer junior Amaya Melendez and Grand Blanc freshman Kate Brody also shot in the 70s during Regionals.
Lower Peninsula Division 2 at Forest Akers East
Top-ranked: 1. Grand Rapids Forest Hills Northern, 2. Birmingham Groves, 3. Grand Rapids Forest Hills Central.
Forest Hills Northern is playing for its third straight team championship, having won the last two seasons by 12 and 24 strokes, respectively. Groves will aim to break the streak with a little history – the team is playing for its first Finals title in this sport, with its highest past finish a second place in 1984. Forest Hills Central also is playing for its first girls golf title at this level, as are total eight of the top-10 ranked teams.
Grand Rapids Forest Hills Northern: Last season’s medalist Kay Zubkus graduated, but five more golfers who played at least a round during last season’s Final are back. Junior Lilia Henkel tied for third after finishing seventh as a freshman, and she took second at her Regional at Egypt Valley last week behind only junior teammate Anna Fay – who finished ninth at the 2018 Final. All five FHN golfers placed among the top 11 at the Regional – senior Rylee Walters was third, senior Ava Frost seventh and junior Baylee Walters 11th as the team shot a 326 against a field that also included Forest Hills Central.
Birmingham Groves: The Falcons have missed qualifying for the Finals as a team the last two seasons, but senior Chloe Collon will be playing in her fourth Finals after making the field individually as a sophomore and junior and when the team finished 14th in 2016. Groves edged Port Huron Northern by three strokes to win the Regional at Farmington Hills Golf Course, where Collon finished second and sophomore sister Eve Collon tied for seventh.
Grand Rapids Forest Hills Central: The Rangers jumped from 15th in 2017 to seventh last year and should make a run at least at their first top-two finish if not more. Three of six from last year’s Finals lineup are back, and all three finished among the top eight at Egypt Valley as the team came in second to Forest Hills Northern. Seniors Ally Ringler and Mandy Ehrlich tied for fifth and junior Maddie Knoor was eighth at the Regional. Ringler and Knoor also played at the 2017 Final.
Other individuals of note: With one top-three finisher moving to Division 1 and another to Division 3, only Forest Hills Northern’s Henkel and Fay are back from last year’s top 10. Joining Fay as Regional champions last week were Petoskey senior Ashley Lamb, Zeeland West senior Phloy Wongvilart, St. Johns’ senior Tuesday Lewis, South Lyon junior Katherine Potter and Port Huron Northern sophomore Madison Bajis. Lamb, Potter, Lewis, Wongvilart, Henkel, Fay and Pinckney junior Olivia Ohmer (in finishing second to Lewis) all broke 80 during those rounds.
Lower Peninsula Division 3 at The Meadows at Grand Valley State
Top-ranked: 1. Flint Powers Catholic, 2. Bloomfield Hills Marian, 3. Big Rapids.
Powers is the reigning champion after last year winning its first Final since 2008. But a repeat run faces a sizable obstacle in Marian, which finished fifth in Division 2 in 2018. Big Rapids has a long record of success and will try to add its first top-two Finals finish.
Flint Powers Catholic: The Chargers won last fall’s championship by 32 strokes with two top-10 individual placers who both return along with a third starter. Junior Jolie Brochu ended up runner-up in 2018 after a tie-breaker hole, senior Maggie Knight finished fourth overall and sophomore Allie Sexton was the team’s fifth scorer. Knight was first, Brochu second, Sexton seventh and senior Brianna Ales eighth at last week’s Regional at Pine River in Alma.
Bloomfield Hills Marian: The Mustangs also finished seventh in Division 2 in 2016 and second in 2017, and they are led again by junior Shannon Kennedy – who won the Final as a freshman and tied for third last season. Three others who played at least a round at last season’s championship tournament also are back: senior Marlo Hudson will be playing in her fourth Final, junior Lauren Sass her third and junior Sarah Kuredjain her second. Marian won its Regional at Raisin Valley in Tecumseh by three strokes ahead of No. 4 Detroit Country Day, with Kennedy the medalist, Hudson coming in second and junior Laura Emerson tying for 10th.
Big Rapids: The Cardinals have finished 10th, 12th and seventh, respectively, the last three seasons and enter this weekend with their top four scorers making a return trip. Senior Hope Thebo tied for 10th individually last year and will be playing in her fourth Final. Junior Lauren Posey and senior Holly McKenna joined the Finals five in 2017 and junior Avery Chaput was the team’s fourth scorer a year ago. Big Rapids won its Regional at Katke by 50 strokes with Posey the medalist, Thebo and Chaput tied for third and McKenna tied for sixth.
Other individuals of note: Brochu is the top finisher of seven from last year’s top 10 (and ties) who will play again this weekend. Marshall senior Karlee Malone and Grand Rapids South Christian senior Maddie Wieringa tied for fifth last season and Marysville senior Madeline Blum and Carleton Airport junior Kristen Reed tied for 10th; Malone and Blum also won Regional titles last week. Grand Rapids Christian junior Ryann Breslin also is coming off a Regional title, while Bloomfield Hills Cranbrook Kingswood sophomore Ashley Kong and Spring Lake senior Phoebe Saunders also broke 80 during last week’s MHSAA events.
Lower Peninsula Division 4 at Battle Creek’s Bedford Valley
Top-ranked: 1. Harbor Springs, 2. Grand Rapids NorthPointe Christian, 3. Kalamazoo Hackett Catholic Prep.
Harbor Springs has won the last two Division 4 championships and is favored to run the streak to three. Hackett also has won two championships this decade, in 2014 and 2015, and NorthPointe was the runner-up in 2013 and is seeking its first title. Lansing Catholic is ranked No. 4 and seeking its first top-two finish since winning three straight titles from 2010-12.
Harbor Springs: The Rams graduated two major scorers after last season’s repeat, but seniors Mackenzie Gillett and Evie Garver and junior Jacque O’Neill are back from last year’s top five to lead this weekend’s run. Harbor Springs won its Regional at Farwell’s Eagle Glen by 89 strokes, with O’Neill first, Garver second, sophomore Taylore Wilson third and senior Maggie Bailey tied for fifth. O’Neill and Garver also were part of the lineup for the 2017 championship.
Grand Rapids NorthPointe Christian: After finishing 10th, 13th and 10th again the last three seasons, respectively, the Mustangs are expected to make a major jump with a veteran group. Seniors Lauren Slotkke, Hannah Langerak and Elizabeth Nymeyer all will be playing in their third Final, and junior Sabrina Langerak also was part of last year’s lineup. NorthPointe edged Hackett by eight strokes at last week’s Regional at The Mines in Grand Rapids, with Sabrina Langerak the medalist, Slotkke tied for second and Nymeyer tied for fifth.
Kalamazoo Hackett Catholic Prep: The Irish are regular contenders having finished third, fifth and fourth over the last three Finals. While Hackett also graduated some major contributors from that fourth-place finisher, seniors Colleen McNally and Olivia Valkner and juniors Meg Christian and Lauren Rex all played at least one Finals round in 2018. While finishing second at the Regional as a team, McNally tied for second, Valkner for fifth and Christian placed seventh.
Other individuals of note: East Jackson senior Alexis Brzezinski will play in her third Final and is the only returning top-10 finisher in Division 4 from a year ago, having tied for fourth. She won her Regional; also winning Regionals in addition to her, Sabrina Langerak and O’Neill were Frankenmuth junior Ella Smith, Onsted junior Jaime Metzger and Almont junior Brandi Kautz. O’Neill and Brzezinski both broke 80.
PHOTO: Harbor Springs' Jacque O’Neill watches the flight of one of her drives during last season's LP Division 4 Final. (Click to see more from HighSchoolSportsScene.com.)